You are a winner. Look at yourself now and call yourself a winner. Why? Because you are! Let me explain. Have you ever given this a thought? Well before conception, you won the initial battle. Why did I say that? There were millions of spermatozoa released by your father and they contested for your mother's egg, only one egg and you know what? It was you that got to the priced egg first.
Let us see this event in perspective. The battle was fought in microscopic level. To appreciate this, i'll explain this in a simple way. The race from the point of release to the point of fertilization is equivalent to a full grown man running a 100 kilometer race along a major high way with millions of other men and reaching the target first to claim the price. Can you see it clearly now that you are a winner?